I’m afraid what this woman will do if she backs off

Dear Abby: I have a long distance friend I met online 10 years ago. I took pity on her because she was almost non-existent, and I was helping her pay her bills.

Jane Phillips

She has visited me many times, and I care about her very much. However, her constant requests for money are starting to make me feel uncomfortable. (She cannot work for health reasons, and there is a huge dearth of social services or competent care in the Rust Belt.)

I don’t want to keep enabling it. I have tried to suggest her to approach her sister, seek better care, etc., but she is not motivated.


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